Dementia Values & Priorities Tool: Designed to help you communicate your wishes regarding future care if you are living with dementia. After answering a series of questions related to the changes commonly seen in the progression of dementia, the tool will provide you with a document that can be added to your existing advance directive and shared with others. https://www.compassionandchoices.org/dementia-values-tool
Advance Directives/Living Wills – Delaware
https://dhss.delaware.gov/Dsaapd/advance.html
Durable Power of Attorney & Living Will – Delaware
https://courts.delaware.gov/help/poa.aspx
Guardianship (may be done without an attorney)
https://courts.delaware.gov/chancery/guardianship/index.aspx
https://courts.delaware.gov/forms/download.aspx?id=70778
Delaware Medical Orders for Scope of Treatment (DMOST)
https://dqolc.org/dmost/
https://dqolc.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/DMOST-Form-and-FAQs-new-form.pdf
Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation
For many, a ‘natural death’ may be preferable to enduring CPR
In real life, people similarly believe that survival after CPR is over 75%.
In reality, it is only 7.6%
“Nurse refuses to perform CPR…911 dispatcher’s pleas ignored.”
According to family, the woman had wished to “die naturally and without any kind of life-prolonging intervention.”
So why the controversy? It comes down to a widespread misconception of what CPR can, and can’t, do. CPR can sometimes save lives, but it also has a dark side.
Many people learn what they know about CPR from television. In 2015, researchers found that survival after CPR on TV was 70%.
But the true odds are grim…the overall rate of survival from out-of-hospital cardiac arrest had barely changed in thirty years. It was 7.6%.
A rare but particularly awful effect of CPR is called CPR-induced consciousness
It’s not just a matter of life or death, if you survive, but quality of life.
Only 20-40% of older patients who survive CPR were able to function independently
https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2023/05/29/1177914622/a-natural-death-may-be-preferable-for-many-than-enduring-cpr
The Hidden Harms of CPR
The brutal procedure can save lives, but only in particular cases.
Why has it become a default treatment?
It is an open secret in medicine that CPR is both brutal and rarely effective. The procedure begins at death, when someone loses a pulse
It requires a hundred chest compressions per minute…and using a defibrillator to deliver an electric shock to the chest
The force of compressions can shatter ribs…puncture lungs, bruise the heart, cause major blood vessels to rupture
Brain damage…occurs in forty per cent of hospitalized patients.
https://www.newyorker.com/news/the-weekend-essay/the-hidden-harms-of-cpr
Medical Aid in Dying
Legislation is actively being pursued for passage in the Delaware House of Delegates. Presently, MAID is not legal in the State of Delaware. HB 140 is modeled after the Oregon Legislation.
Please review this article for a good update on MAID nationally
Recommended Books
The Inevitable: Dispatches on the Right to Die
https://www.amazon.com/Inevitable-Dispatches-Right-Die/dp/1786495643
Medical Aid in Dying: A Guide for Patients and their Supporters
https://www.amazon.com/Medical-Aid-Dying-Patients-Supporters/dp/B0BSXZZ6NQ
The Death Doula’s Guide to Living Fully and Dying Prepared
https://www.amazon.com/Death-Doulas-Guide-Living-Prepared/dp/B0C9R71D3F
Recommended Articles
A Hospice Nurse on Embracing the Grace of Dying
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2023/10/22/magazine/hadley-vlahos-interview.html
