Living Will and Advanced Directives

Dementia Values & Priorities Tool: Designed to help you communicate your wishes regarding future care if you are living with dementia. After answering a series of questions related to the changes commonly seen in the progression of dementia, the tool will provide you with a document that can be added to your existing advance directive and shared with others. https://www.compassionandchoices.org/dementia-values-tool

Advance Directives/Living Wills – Delaware
https://dhss.delaware.gov/Dsaapd/advance.html

Durable Power of Attorney & Living Will – Delaware
https://courts.delaware.gov/help/poa.aspx

Guardianship (may be done without an attorney)
https://courts.delaware.gov/chancery/guardianship/index.aspx
https://courts.delaware.gov/forms/download.aspx?id=70778

Delaware Medical Orders for Scope of Treatment (DMOST)
https://dqolc.org/dmost/
https://dqolc.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/DMOST-Form-and-FAQs-new-form.pdf

Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation

For many, a ‘natural death’ may be preferable to enduring CPR
In real life, people similarly believe that survival after CPR is over 75%.
In reality, it is only 7.6%

“Nurse refuses to perform CPR…911 dispatcher’s pleas ignored.”

According to family, the woman had wished to “die naturally and without any kind of life-prolonging intervention.”

So why the controversy? It comes down to a widespread misconception of what CPR can, and can’t, do. CPR can sometimes save lives, but it also has a dark side.

Many people learn what they know about CPR from television. In 2015, researchers found that survival after CPR on TV was 70%.

But the true odds are grim…the overall rate of survival from out-of-hospital cardiac arrest had barely changed in thirty years. It was 7.6%.

A rare but particularly awful effect of CPR is called CPR-induced consciousness

It’s not just a matter of life or death, if you survive, but quality of life.

Only 20-40% of older patients who survive CPR were able to function independently

https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2023/05/29/1177914622/a-natural-death-may-be-preferable-for-many-than-enduring-cpr

The Hidden Harms of CPR
The brutal procedure can save lives, but only in particular cases.
Why has it become a default treatment?

It is an open secret in medicine that CPR is both brutal and rarely effective. The procedure begins at death, when someone loses a pulse

It requires a hundred chest compressions per minute…and using a defibrillator to deliver an electric shock to the chest

The force of compressions can shatter ribs…puncture lungs, bruise the heart, cause major blood vessels to rupture

Brain damage…occurs in forty per cent of hospitalized patients.​​

https://www.newyorker.com/news/the-weekend-essay/the-hidden-harms-of-cpr

Medical Aid in Dying

Legislation is actively being pursued for passage in the Delaware House of Delegates. Presently, MAID is not legal in the State of Delaware. HB 140 is modeled after the Oregon Legislation.

Link to Delaware HB 140

Please review this article for a good update on MAID nationally


Recommended Books

The Inevitable: Dispatches on the Right to Die
https://www.amazon.com/Inevitable-Dispatches-Right-Die/dp/1786495643

Medical Aid in Dying: A Guide for Patients and their Supporters
https://www.amazon.com/Medical-Aid-Dying-Patients-Supporters/dp/B0BSXZZ6NQ

The Death Doula’s Guide to Living Fully and Dying Prepared
https://www.amazon.com/Death-Doulas-Guide-Living-Prepared/dp/B0C9R71D3F

Recommended Articles

A Hospice Nurse on Embracing the Grace of Dying
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2023/10/22/magazine/hadley-vlahos-interview.html